wallet_account_list_public_keys <account_name>
wow .. that explains a lot ...
you 'real public key' is listed in "wallet_list_my_accounts"
but I think we can fix this:
1) take the pubkey you told BTER to send it it (NOT the one in the transaction) ..
2) console -->
wallet_account_list_public_keys THEPUBKEY3) you should get a private key as result ... starting with 5... !!! DO NOT SHARE!!!
4) console:
importprivkey PRIVKEY mytempaccountnamefrombter true true -- do it exactly like this .. replace your privkey
5) see your funds popup in your new account "mytempaccountnamefrombter" (local account)
6) move the funds to your 'real' account or what ever!
Good luck
edit: step 4 initiates a rescan .. and might take some minutes before complete .. you can check the progress with "getinfo"