Rebuilt delegate node from latest. Deleted data dir and recreated wallet, imported delegate private key.
Restarted. 
Still have only one connection
get_info 
{
  "blockchain_head_block_num": 4584,
  "blockchain_head_block_time": "20140614T195900",
  "blockchain_confirmation_requirement": 285,
  "blockchain_average_delegate_participation": 55.843408175014396,
  "network_num_connections": 1,
about
{
  "bitshares_toolkit_revision": "096d7a830d80c7911e845eb9c3e5f05656444e24",
  "bitshares_toolkit_revision_age": "2 hours ago",
  "fc_revision": "eab346121d1e6a2f52246e84b503907d8ec705f1",
  "fc_revision_age": "45 hours ago",
  "compile_date": "compiled on Jun 14 2014 at 20:25:16"
list_errors 
[]
network_get_peer_info 
[{
    "addr": "107.170.30.182:8764",
    "addrlocal": "207.12.89.119:47892",
    "services": "00000001",
    "lastsend": 1402775836,
    "lastrecv": 1402775836,
    "bytessent": 221792,
    "bytesrecv": 1160032,
    "conntime": "",
    "pingtime": "",
    "pingwait": "",
    "version": "",
    "subver": "bts::net::node",
    "inbound": false,
    "firewall_status": "unknown",
    "startingheight": "",
    "banscore": "",
    "syncnode": "",
    "bitshares_git_revision_sha": "834272898d260eb54335196fb1009332c2789785 (different from ours)",
    "bitshares_git_revision_unix_timestamp": "20140613T223721",
    "bitshares_git_revision_age": "21 hours ago (older than ours)",
    "fc_git_revision_sha": "b02210a3617f86d09a2898bab17c727c73aae6f0 (different from ours)",
    "fc_git_revision_unix_timestamp": "20140612T213658",
    "fc_git_revision_age": "46 hours ago (older than ours)",
    "platform": "linux"
  }
from ~/.BitsharesXTS/default.log
 node_impl::connect_to(106.185.26.48:54601)			node.cpp:2371
470698ms       th_a display_current_conn ] Currently have 8 of 8 connections			node.cpp:997
470698ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    my id is 13c8b9e2d6df5b15bef116666c0d8a9f513b7913			node.cpp:998
470698ms       th_a display_current_conn ]         active: 107.170.30.182:8764 with 42e86a6e5638c95a4b3fdfde811de33a6d9ecedd   [outbound]			node.cpp:1002
470698ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 106.185.26.48:54601 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [unknown]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 106.185.26.48:49342 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 106.185.26.48:39322 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 106.185.26.48:41107 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 180.153.142.115:59434 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 180.153.142.115:34896 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a display_current_conn ]    handshaking: 180.153.142.115:44341 with 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000  [outbound]			node.cpp:1006
470699ms       th_a p2p_network_connect_ ] I don't need any more connections, waiting forever until something changes			node.cpp:696
471410ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
473412ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
475415ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
477417ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
479420ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
481423ms       th_a         get_property ] property active_delegate_list_id			chain_database.cpp:1711
481982ms       th_a on_item_ids_inventor ] received inventory of 1 items from peer 107.170.30.182:8764			node.cpp:1739
481982ms       th_a on_item_ids_inventor ] addinged item 08337d57a48e09ef3d68c3f87fa9cad1c28c57df from inventory message to our list of items to fetch			node.cpp:1766
481982ms       th_a     fetch_items_loop ] beginning an iteration of fetch items (1 items to fetch)			node.cpp:794
481983ms       th_a     fetch_items_loop ] requesting item 08337d57a48e09ef3d68c3f87fa9cad1c28c57df from peer 107.170.30.182:8764			node.cpp:804
481984ms       th_a     dump_node_status ] ----------------- PEER STATUS UPDATE --------------------			node.cpp:2406
481984ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]  number of peers: 1 active, 7, 124 closing.  attempting to maintain 8 - 12 peers			node.cpp:2409
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]        active peer 107.170.30.182:8764 peer_is_in_sync_with_us:true we_are_in_sync_with_peer:true			node.cpp:2414
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 106.185.26.48:54601 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 106.185.26.48:49342 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 106.185.26.48:39322 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 106.185.26.48:41107 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 180.153.142.115:59434 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 180.153.142.115:34896 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ]   handshaking peer 180.153.142.115:44341 in state disconnected			node.cpp:2421
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ] --------- MEMORY USAGE ------------			node.cpp:2424
481985ms       th_a     dump_node_status ] node._active_sync_requests size: 4568 (this is known to be broken)			node.cpp:2425