Sorry for dropping off half-way in the discussion, I caught the flu complete with fever and all, so I thought it wise to not post in a delirium.
Forgive me if I sound addled or if I'm rambling, but my mind is still plenty foggy.
Again about the evil bit, that still is just a matter of point of view. People might complain about asics and centralization, but fact of the matter is most alt-coins don't do a better job of it. Just look at Litecoin and it's asic-proof mentality, people are already complaining about the litecoin-devs not wanting to take action to prevent asics from messing up the market.
About the counterparty dispute, I've read the forum thread on bitcointalk and this discussion, (which btw was blown out of all proportions by the crypto tabloid as usual) was not about all bitcoin-devs being "anti-2.0" or even uncooperative, at least not at the start of the discussion. The way I saw it, counterparty was being a diva and pissed off that not everyone in bitcoin-land was devoted to their every whim. Counterparty was exploiting a feature that was not meant for that purpose and were causing blockchain-bloat that cannot be filtered, which means they were burdening everyone using bitcoin with their stuff and their argument that the miner got his fee does not make that right. Also they were expecting people to guess what they were doing and what they needed, without participating in any discussion on the proper and open channels for this, nothing on the bitcoin mailinglists, no BIP nothing. The bitcoin-devs posted some ideas about more elegant (and filterable for people not interested in counterparty) solutions and temporary workarounds in the meantime, but counterparty seemed to want nothing of it and the discussion quickly deteriorated, with Luke-Jr and Counterparty both throwing oil on the fire.
Back on topic of centralization of POW and ASIC-miners and evil centralization. I don't exactly see how sidechains would stop innovation. As I mentioned before, I'm not actually seeing the benefits of the vast majority of alt-coins even the big ones like Litecoin, especially with the advent of scrypt-asics. I'm also not seeing devs being religiously pro POW per se, but they just don't believe there is a better way to issue coins and even peercoin (and PTS for that matter) seems to share that believe. There is a thread on bitcointalk where someone with a long name with "slippery" in it, is trying to come up with a way to upgrade bitcoin to POS, while at the same time keep a fair and reliable coin-issuance mechanic. Bitcoin-devs were telling him to go right ahead, but warned him that he would fail like all others who tried before him.
The AGS-auction, while ingenious is not actually an integrated decentralized solution, so up till now nobody seems to have worked out a better method for coin-generation than POW (resulting in centralization, miningpools and asics) before getting to the stage of POS. The other method is premine like NXT and they are not actually doing that great of a job redistributing the wealth and "forging" power (I keep seeing the same few block forgers appearing on their blockexplorers).
Also keep in mind, should a few bitshares DACs take off, how would people late to the party view our stake in the market? I'm pretty sure we'll get plenty of complaints about premine, unfair advantage, centralization and people clamoring the righteous need for these projects to get forked. I also noticed some hefty opposition when discussing ways to come up with more "fair" distributions like airdrops and such. I like the lottery idea in bitcoin rewarding people for lending services to improve or run the network and use that as an incentive to bootstrap the system. Biggest problem seems to be to get initial stakeholders to agree on it, Bytemaster seems to not be in favor of any share-diluting features like new token/share-generation.
Hmm, that gave me an idea about something which probably should be front and center on the bitshares webpages and faqs. A list of facts and myths plus rebuttals for people unfamiliar with (D)POS and what it implies. Like how lottery style token-generation won't work in (D)POS, not even if done in separate stages. For example a 20% founder premine and timed issuance of the remaining 80% through lottery amongst blocksolvers/ full node runners, would still unfairly advantage the initial stakeholders in the lottery.
I'll have to break off again here, I passed out a few times while writing this post so I'm starting to suspect that I probably should hit the sack and try to sleep off this flu.